For God’s Sake: Understanding God’s love for us
A child asks, “Can I go to Billy’s house?” “No,” his mother answers, “it’s almost dinnertime.” That small, two-letter word “no” makes all the difference in his mother’s answer. Remove it, and the child might interpret permission to go to Billy’s house until it is dinnertime. Reinsert it, and his mother’s intentions are clear.
I did not know Greek in my first eight years as a pastor, not yet having gone to seminary, but the pastor I served under was proficient in it. I suggested that he offer the church a Greek language class. “That would not be helpful,” he replied. Not helpful? How could it not be helpful to know the original language of the New Testament?
I eventually went to seminary and finally understood his reluctance. Learning Greek vocabulary is not enough, you must also learn Greek grammar. When I learned Greek grammar, my grasp of English grammar improved. Knowing Greek grammar is not essential for rightly understanding the Bible; knowing English grammar is.
Consider the most popular verse in the Bible, John 3:16, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life.” It is popularly understood to say, “God loved the world SO much that he gave his only Son,” the word “so” communicating the intensity of God’s love.
Certainly, God’s love is superlative for God is love, the very source of it. And, in certain contexts, “so” does serve to intensify; for example: “I was so hungry that I ate an early dinner.” However, this is likely not the use of “so” in the John 3:16 text.
In English, the word “so” can also mean “thus” or “in this way.” Using my earlier example, I might say, “I had an evening appointment, so I ate an early dinner.”
Similarly in Greek, the word translated “so” in John 3:16 can, in certain contexts, serve as an intensifier, but in this context, it means “in this way” or “in the following way.” Some Bible publications add a footnote clarifying the translation, “For this is how God loved the world, he gave his only Son…”
This understanding doesn’t diminish the greatness of God’s love for us, rather, it helps us better understand it.
The popular “God loved the world so much” understanding has led some to conclude that God loved us because we were so loveable.
In Romans 5, we learn that God loved us when we were weak and ungodly – unlovely – and that Christ the Son died for us while we were yet sinners.
In this way, God demonstrated the greatness of his love for us. “Love so amazing, so divine, demands my soul, my life, my all,” wrote hymnist Isaac Watts. So, it does!